Beginning in the Middle by Sheri LeClair Banitt

Spent a bit of time tonight trying to figure out what I had done to this website that was making it inaccessible. Who knows? Actually, who even cares? Just make it work, right? Turns out they have Support to help me with that. In just a few short minutes, the website was fixed and all is well.

So this is the world we live in. We often know what we want to do, but have no idea how to do it. If you want to know the secrets, you have to learn and study and practice your craft. Such is the world of technology.

I think it is confusing to an old beginner like me because I don’t want to start at the beginning. I want to start my blogging journey at the end, with the professional bloggers. I want to produce the finished product without taking the time to know the ingredients. Adult learners do not have the patience of young learners. Millennial techies played with computers, internet, smart phones and such the way Boomers played cards, board games, and neighborhood outdoor games. Young people know technology and old people know people.

Many young people seem to have anxiety and discomfort in social situations and being with people. I think it’s because they are trying to start at the end, where everything is figured out and it all works the way they imagine it should be. But relationships take time, practice, error and diligence. You have to spend time being with people and weaving your way through failure and success. What you end up learning is that the best relationships are never perfect. There is no need for perfection; just a desire for meaningful human interaction.

I am going to stop trying to approach technology at the end. I am going to embrace the unknown and learn the ingredients of a successful blog without agonizing over the mistakes along the way. But I really don’t have time to start at the beginning. This world is moving too fast for that. I am going to try beginning in the middle and asking my Millennial friends for help when I get stuck. We all need to call Support sometimes.

What’s in the noise? by Sheri LeClair Banitt

Hello folks. Thanks for your encouraging comments on my first post. In Millennial fashion, I googled ‘how people can follow my blog on Word Press’. It’s simple. Once I publish two posts, the Follow Blog Widget should appear on the bottom right corner of the screen, allowing you to follow me. Hope it works – we shall see.

Today at work, I thought about a difference in the office noise level, compared to a decade ago. I’m not talking about the heater fans, office equipment or white noise. I’m talking about the noise directly related to the people at work.

Now instead of hearing the office noises I have heard much of my career, I see the headphones and earbuds. Gone are the radios and CD players. Remember when we could play CDs in our desktops? No more team votes about which radio station to play in common areas. No spontaneous toe tapping when the greatest hit comes on, no group camaraderie when everyone knows the words to the song.

People are listening to podcasts, paid song download sites, books and other selections through laptops and mobile phones. There are still some dinosaurs like me who have an actual radio and a CD player, but the technology offered online is superior in selection and privacy.

Work is getting done, people are entertained and this is really a non-issue. Except that I can’t help but miss the old-timey noise in the office. I miss the chit chat between coworkers in cubes asking about processes and procedures. I miss the quiet laughter and exclamations as the day unfolds and things happen. I am missing the community and interaction of colleagues beyond the flat screen of the computer.

We still communicate often through computer messaging or email and we get the work done; often more efficiently than we used to. Though I am a big user of the smiley emoji, I long to see your smiling face as I tell you, “Good job”. I kind of want you to see my silly, googly eyes when I confess, “I goofed.” Those are the things that help me gauge relationships and how things are going. A careful observer could learn so much about the business and different personalities just by listening to the daily office noise.

If we want to talk to someone wearing earbuds, we have to get their attention first. This can be awkward because we don’t want to startle anyone. Do you tap them on the shoulder? Tap the desk? Invasive. Do we position ourselves in their line of vision and wait until they notice? Really hard for an extrovert to wait. Best Practice – send a message telling them you’re coming over to chat in person; rather. asking if they have a moment for an in-person visit. This works, it gets the job done. But it can leave you feeling like you’re invading someone’s privacy or that someone else is invading your privacy. Everyone knows that if you want to be left alone, you put in your earbuds.

I keep the earbuds out of my ears because I really like to hear the office noise and I like to be easily accessible. ENFJ. And what I’m hearing tells me about relationships and how things are going. Now I just have to listen more often with my eyes and plan ahead for those ‘impromptu’ face to face meetings.

Not Ready-Starting Anyway by Sheri LeClair Banitt

Here’s the blog. I need a creative outlet and I am passionate about a situation I find myself in all the time: Baby Boomer aging in a workforce that is increasingly younger and more tech oriented. Please join me as I share my take on growing skills, managing stress, and enjoying the broad age dynamic in my workplace. Bear with me as I learn to navigate the blogger world of mysterious technology needed to broadcast my message.

As one of America’s youngest Boomers, (born in 1962) I was raised in a slower time without computers and the internet, where people were more connected to each other by daily, personal interactions. I am rapidly moving into a future that feels more personal and less personal at the same time.

I hope to entertain you as I document my experiences and explore the mindset dichotomy of the Millennial and the Boomer. And I hope you’re very patient as it may take a minute to get up to speed on this blog. If I wait until I’m ready, it may not ever happen.

Cheers!